YEs No and anything in between..(warning superlong)

Have U ever enocountered anyone whose reaction can only be Either

YES or NO.

Another way to put this in terms of a Scaling system in response to

 any matters,situations,relationships, working conflicts...

Either 0 or 10 in the sacle of 10.

They will be described as 'Exterme characters',  'Non Flexible',

'Ruin everyone's fun'.

Sometimes those above categorised people do get on people's nerve Big time!

But the fact is....remember how we all used to have those qualities in us.

We insists/persist in something/someone....or we used to hanging on

Not anymore...for some lost cos it requires too much strength and it gets tiring...

at times boring....lonely....then we.........let it  slip....

we compromise...we convinced ourslevs it's not bad afterall....in fact...

it's the way to go!! got some many things achieved..

We celebarte with the rest...no more 0, 10, become more n more popular...

Mr n Mrs Nice Guy....anything in between 2 , 5  7 8....so much more room.

From minority turn majority.

One nnight...just 2 nights ago....I wacthed this CNN show that blown my mind/soul away.

CNN HEROES Stars Tribute hosted by Anderson cooper on ThxGiving night.

I was clapping my hands in front of my TV set, I was tearing....

how crazy was that???? it's like I was LA Kodak Theater in person.

That night, there were 10 heroes to be hailed for their works all over the world.

1)Lady from Marouba,Africa, 15 of her family died of AIDS, she went to USA lived a new life,after certain yrs,she wanted to went back home rasing money from nannys to help her viilage

2)A lady in philidepphia who oneday think running can heal, she had a drug addicted father that left her family when she was little. She started running....had healed her...oneday she jogged past some homeless....think the same idea....then she asked them to runwith her,she buy them shoes...tied their shoe laces...some keep on running....to find life meaning,free of drugs....work again...they still run every morning

3)Cambodia woman.....mother died when she was 15...now a teacher....saw kids as smalll as 4-5 wroked 12 hrs to collect Garbage in dumpsite for a $ a day...went to those dump sites asked them to go to  school after work....used all her money to build a school near the dumpsites....just to let them have a chance...(it all started when 1 day she finsiheed eating at some place throwing away some meat leaning chicken bone...all children went after the bone)

4)Some businessmen in washington...richman, oneday thought...Many small towns after storm and Tornadoes...no one their to help them ....he sold his business and gathered only his 3 other buddies...to buy heavy duty equipments and they became the fastes response team to anywhere with disaster........sold all his business any $ goes to help build equiomets to help

5)a Mexican Nanny who worked for Ricki Lake helped her watch her 2 kids...oneday she went back to a cousin's wedding...that part was so poor....kids have no food....then whever she has times...she brought food across the border and had already travlled back n forth over thounsand times to bring doos....but the donation dropping....she cooked her own food to rbing over cos cheaper....and ask every Nanny to cheap in $10

6)African Man never read a book....oneday..someone left a book about romance..in his liittle africa town..he started reading and imagining....there is no book no library in their lives...moved to US some yrs back had 2 sons now...he became a children's book librarian,oneday he just felt the urge to go back home...he went back with 2 sons...use his house as libraries..now has over 20 houses like that....he read stories to them....when a kid can read..they becoem thinkers!!! Then their future starts.........

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10Heroes...............n many more

YES we can NO we cannot

Yes we can do this. NO we cannot let this happen

Yes I will whether U agree or not.

NO we cant just walk away.

I admire these people with their focus their willingness to be feeling so alone at extreme times to exercise thier gift to the fullest extent.

There are these words that left in my mind til now from that night.

'What's need to be done and what's right. Then we should do it.'

Then I recalled another one

'We cant change eveyrthing, but for those we can, we MUST.'

I know..........it's very long............that's me..........very random.

go watch those cnn clips........i guranteed it's the best thing around these days.

'Yes, then say yes, NO then say No,anything more....it's from the devil'-bible