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WARNING SIGNS OF ABUSE

*Do you feel nervous around your partner?

*Do you have to be careful to control your behavīor to avoid their anger?

*Do you feel pressured by your partner when it comes to sex?

*Are you scared of disagreeing with your partner?

*Does your partner criticize you, or humiliate you in front of other people?

*Are they always checking up or questioning you about what you do without your partner?

*Does your partner repeatedly and wrongly accuse you of seeing or flirting with other people?

*Does your partner tell you that if you changed they wouldn't abuse you?

*Does your partner's jealousy stop you from seeing friends or family?

*Does your partner make you feel like you are wrong, stupid, crazy or inadequate?

*Have they ever scared you with violence or threatening behavīor?

*Does your partner prevent you from going out or doing things you want to do?

*Are you expected to do things to please your partner, rather than to please yourself?

*Do you feel that, with your partner, nothing you ever do is good enough?

*Does your partner say that they will kill or hurt you or themselves if you break up with them?

*Does your partner make excuses for behavīor, for example, by saying it's because of alcohol or drugs, or because they can't control their temper, or that they were "just joking"?

You do not deserve to be abused