Ex and Facebook

Something really funny happened tonight.

Ok FUNNY is not exactly the word as i'm pretty pissed right now but let's take it with humor.

In my life, there are not many things I did that I regret. I accept all my stupid acts and choices with philosophy because I take it as a lesson for the future.

BUT there's one guy I really want to forget about and...tonight he just sent me a request on facebook !!

WTF ???

To summarize, I was 19, all naive and I had a big crush on him that time but didn't have any expectations as he was almost engaged.

And then he has been dumped by his gf "the woman of his life" like he used to say, and she started to see another guy. As we worked together, he started to show some interest... After few months of dating and promises, I didn't know it, but he got back with his ex. For more than 6 months he played with the both of us, lying, hiding, cheating,serving me a masquerade I blindly accepted... I guess he wanted to take a kinda revenge on his gf who dared to move on when she dumped him, to make her pay for that.

When I found out he pretended he was confused about his feelings and all messed up but he promised : "I had feelings for you "...

Yeah suuuuure like you can have feelings for tissues...

With my huge pride, I felt miserable, used, dirty and very stupid (no mention about the heart status). I mean I don't really care about how "dangerous" and stupid the game may be as long as I know the rules and that everybody have the same standard. If I know what are the risks and If I still choose to play, that's my pb. But don't ever lie to me because then i can be very very mean... His ex called one day at the office and I was by myself, she was shocked to hear me but not mad. I invited her to go and have a coffee the next day for a long talk... Weirdly I didn't talk shit about him, just gave her the truth to all her questions. I remember I was pretty calm that day, satisfied to tear off his angel mask because he asked her to get engaged or something like that.

He is my biggest mistake and that jerk just tried to add me as a FRIEND ????

I was so shocked that i stayed stunned for few seconds. How can he believes he can just pop in my life again, like old good friends and send me the msg "It's hard to say if it's really you".

Like we have anything to say to each other

Like i will allow him to now about my life now...

I'm debating about what to answer to him...besides "go to hell" i mean haha.

Any suggestions ? To blast him or not to blast him ?