Had a chat with a high school friend of mine in Vancouver about his relationship. And I just realize that most guys have the same problem...they don't know how to making their gf's feel wanted.
He told me the story about how his gf got upset cuz he always made her make decisions. He said he made her make decisions cuz he wanted to do whatever makes her happy. She got upset with the fact that it seems like he doesn't care enough to even make decisions for 'their' behalf.
Most of the time a girl just wants to feel wanted and appriciated and in almost most of the time guys don't get this. If you want to spend time with your gf then tell her u do instead of asking her what she wants to do. Once u open your mouth saying you want ur gf to spend time with u she'll feel wanted and most likely will want to spend time with u. If u flip the way u ask the question she'll feel like u dun give a damn. If u know what ur gf likes to eat take her there instead of asking her what she wants. Take charge for god sakes.
Other ways to show u give a damn by doing the following: short sweet text, a short phone call, a hug, or a kiss.
I would never imagine that I'll hafta tell this to my friend after he's been with his gf for 6 years. Men r so thick!
"Dream as if you'll live forever. Live as if you'll die today." James Dean (1931-1955)