The definition of friendship...
This line has become very blur as the years go by. As the moving culture in images, screens and people happen, the boundaries are no longer set by oneself but by the meanings stamp upon one's soul without permission.
I have been asked and I ask the same question too. Why can't friendship just be what it is... people who connect and share treasures which they have found and now it made up their soul. A dent, supposedly an "accident", (but not) and then later, a treasure is found that fits just right into that dent...and I am so grateful to have it...which if without the dent, carrying / understanding this beauty would not have been possible.
Isn't it beautiful when we get to see into another person's soul? Appreciating, learning, acknowledging and encouraging their journey... too long the world has gone by living with criticism, complains and sadness. Dear beautiful swans, you are not the oil spills of another... I feel sad when I feel spills. It's not pretty... especially when you are. You so are.
Must all friendship be Hollywood that leads to something? Can it just lead to brotherhood; sisterhood; thicker than blood-hood? Do you know how does a loving friendship look like?
I would like to redefine these lines. That love is fun, simple and yet deep in the friendship zone. It can be giving and amazing, sometimes even better than the so-called relational relationship of a certain status attached to it.