The Time Traveler's Wife Aftermath|看《時光旅的戀人》的結果 |看《时光旅的恋人》的结果

Just got home from watching The Time Traveler's Wife.Starring on eof my favourite actress Rachel Adams. She's amazing!Saw lotsa girls with puffy eyes exiting the cinema while I was entering.Therefore I expected to weep through the movie.In fact, I am half way through finishing the novel.Been looking forward to it much and I am now satisfied having watched it.Surprisingly, I didn't shed a tear though it was heart wrenching at times.After the movie, I came back to my apartment and while waiting for the elevator,the lady security said to me '' This will be the last second day I'm gonna see you''I turned to her asked '' You leaving? "This is the beginning of  our 30 min long conversation. She told me about her ill fated life. I asked if she has any children cuz I wonder why she's still working at her age and why isn't anyone taking care of her. She shook her head... eyes welled up.. and told me she has five daughters. But none cares about her apart from her two youngest twins who are already 17 whom she gets to see once in a while. She says she tries her very best to explain to them the importance of education, hoping that they'll cherish their chance to have a better life than she has but they wouldn't listen. They wouldn't care about education. This lady was born in a poor family, she started working at eight, and like every other girl, she sought for marrying into a better life at 18. Obviously, that didn't work out. instead, she was physically abused by her mother-in-law as well as her husband. Taking the kids into consideration, she could've bare to put them through a divorce. In a blink of a tearing eye, over thirty years have passed. Now, she's nearing sixty, divorced, with no money, no family to love her, parents dead many many years ago.....  I couldn't say much to make her feel better. I just wished I'm Henry from The Time Traveler's Wife and give her a lottery ticket and at least that will pull her out of her money problem. Since I couldn't do that , I gave her my time to listen to her. Gave her a packet of my favorite tissue paper to wipe her tears. Gave her my number to call me when she feels lonely in future and at the end of it, I gave her a hug.My eyes were teary... so this night is meant for a night to weep after all. It was simply for a different reason. I took the elevator up to my flat. Saw a young boy, around 23 years old cleaning out the garbage. I wonder, if he's gonna do something about his life or is he gonna do the same thing he does everything evening twenty years from this very night. At many times, I think that when we were still in school, the teachers, the parents, everyone else, they kept telling us to study, they kept forcing us to study and we used to think it was just for the results, or simply just to please our parents. These days, kids don't give a damn about pleasing their parents, they're not scared of their parents like how we were. Therefore, they don't care about studying. What most of us didn't know that playing truant, not doing our homework, failing at tests, at exams, giving up school is gonna cost us our entire lives. We didn't know the seriousness of it till maybe when you're 50 and lonely, then, it's too late. Way too late.... so sad... |
剛看完電影《時光旅的戀人》回到家。 

主演的是我最喜歡的女演員 Rachel Adams，她太神奇了! 

當我進入電影院時，看見很多眼睛浮腫的女孩離開。 

因此，我預期這部電影會令我哭。 

事實上，它的原著小說我已完成了一半。 

一直期待著它，現在看完了感到很滿足。 

令人驚訝的是，雖然電影有些令人心痛的場面，我卻沒有流下一滴眼淚。

看完電影後，我回到我的住處，在等待電梯時， 

女保安員對我說：''今天將是我看到你的最後兩天了''

我轉向她問''你要走? “

由此開始了我們之間30分鐘的長談。她告訴我她堪呵的一生。我不知道她為什麼這年紀仍然工作在，而且又沒有任何人照顧，我便問她有沒有孩子。她搖搖頭...淚盈於睫地和我說，她有5個女兒。除了偶而看到兩個最小的、17歲的雙胞胎，其他的都沒有理她。她說她嘗試過很努力地向她們解釋接受教育的重要性，希望她們會珍惜有比她活得更好的機會，但她們就是不聽。她們不會關心學習。

這位女士出生於一個貧窮的家庭，8歲便開始工作，和其他女孩一樣，她竟然將尋求更好的生活為18歲。很明顯，這並不成功。相反，她被丈夫和他的母親虐待。可是為了孩子著想，她沒有離婚。在淚眼中眨眼已經過了超過30年。現在，她已接近60歲，已經離婚，沒有錢，沒有親人愛她，雙親多年前經已去世..... 

我沒辦法讓她感好過一些。我只希望我是《時光旅的戀人》中的Henry，並給她一張彩票，這至少可以幫她解決金錢上的問題。 

由於我不能這樣做，我只好奉上時間來作為她聆聽者。送上一包我最喜歡的紙巾讓她擦眼淚。我也把電話號碼給了她，好讓她將來感到寂寞時可打電話給我，最後，我給了她一個擁抱。

我流淚了...這夜畢竟還是一個要哭的晚上。 

只是原因不同罷了。 

乘電梯到了我住的樓層。看到一個約23歲的男孩在清理垃圾。我不知道，他會否為自己的生命而去幹一番，還是在打後二十年的每一天都只幹著和今晚相同的事情。 

在許多時候，我想當我們還是在求學時期，教師，家長，甚至其他人都不停地告訴我們要學習，他們不斷迫使我們學習令我們一直認為這只是為了成績，或純是為了取悅父母。這些年來，孩子們都不屑要去取悅父母，他們不再像我們那樣害怕他們的父母。因此，他們對學習漠不關心。 

我們不知道，逃學，不做功課，考試、測驗不合格，放棄學業將花費我們一生。它的嚴重性，也許直到您50歲和寂寞時才知道，那就太晚了。真的太晚了....很可悲...| 刚看完电影《时光旅的恋人》回到家。 

主演的是我最喜欢的女演员 Rachel Adams，她太神奇了! 

当我进入电影院时，看见很多眼睛浮肿的女孩离开。 

因此，我预期这部电影会令我哭。 

事实上，它的原着小说我已完成了一半。 

一直期待着它，现在看完了感到很满足。 

令人惊讶的是，虽然电影有些令人心痛的场面，我却没有流下一滴眼泪。

看完电影后，我回到我的住处，在等待电梯时， 

女保安员对我说：''今天将是我看到你的最后两天了''

我转向她问''你要走? “

由此开始了我们之间30分钟的长谈。她告诉我她堪呵的一生。我不知道她为什麽这年纪仍然工作在，而且又没有任何人照顾，我便问她有没有孩子。她摇摇头...泪盈于睫地和我说，她有5个女儿。除了偶而看到两个最小的、17岁的双胞胎，其他的都没有理她。她说她尝试过很努力地向她们解释接受教育的重要性，希望她们会珍惜有比她活得更好的机会，但她们就是不听。她们不会关心学习。

这位女士出生于一个贫穷的家庭，8岁便开始工作，和其他女孩一样，她竟然将寻求更好的生活为18岁。很明显，这并不成功。相反，她被丈夫和他的母亲虐待。可是为了孩子着想，她没有离婚。在泪眼中眨眼已经过了超过30年。现在，她已接近60岁，已经离婚，没有钱，没有亲人爱她，双亲多年前经已去世..... 

我没办法让她感好过一些。我只希望我是《时光旅的恋人》中的Henry，并给她一张彩票，这至少可以帮她解决金钱上的问题。 

由于我不能这样做，我只好奉上时间来作为她聆听者。送上一包我最喜欢的纸巾让她擦眼泪。我也把电话号码给了她，好让她将来感到寂寞时可打电话给我，最后，我给了她一个拥抱。

我流泪了...这夜毕竟还是一个要哭的晚上。 

只是原因不同罢了。 

乘电梯到了我住的楼层。看到一个约23岁的男孩在清理垃圾。我不知道，他会否为自己的生命而去干一番，还是在打后二十年的每一天都只干着和今晚相同的事情。 

在许多时候，我想当我们还是在求学时期，教师，家长，甚至其他人都不停地告诉我们要学习，他们不断迫使我们学习令我们一直认为这只是为了成绩，或纯是为了取悦父母。这些年来，孩子们都不屑要去取悦父母，他们不再像我们那样害怕他们的父母。因此，他们对学习漠不关心。 

我们不知道，逃学，不做功课，考试、测验不合格，放弃学业将花费我们一生。它的严重性，也许直到您50岁和寂寞时才知道，那就太晚了。真的太晚了....很可悲...